By Erin Clabough — 2020
Research-based ideas to help us practice our most important skill: kindness.
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Empathy is divided into cognitive, emotional and applied empathy, all of which are valuable. For empathy to truly be useful to the human condition, our kids must have applied empathy, or compassion.
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