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Childfree by Choice, Regretting Parenthood and the Taboo of Freedom

By Lakshmi Sarah — 2008

A growing number of adults are choosing to pursue a life without children. Still, many people — especially women — say that they feel judged by their families, friends and even their own doctors when they vocalize a desire to be childfree. In addition, some parents say that to express regret, even over certain aspects of parenthood, is entirely taboo.

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