Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT), a fusion of attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and arousal regulation. He speaks and teaches on how to create and support secure-functioning relationships.
The eyes are the windows to the soul, right? Sure, why not? Maybe that vulnerability of being able to look right into someone is what makes eye-contact difficult, particularly during arguments. Maybe it's something more visceral and primal, like a challenge.
In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You’ll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.
Everybody wants someone to love and spend time with, and searching for your ideal partner is a natural and healthy human tendency. Just about everyone dates at some point in their lives, yet few really understand what they're doing or how to get the best results.