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Stan Tatkin



Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT), a fusion of attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and arousal regulation. He speaks and teaches on how to create and support secure-functioning relationships.

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Stan Tatkin: Relationships Are Hard, But Why? | TEDxKC

Relationships are hard. But what if it's not you or them or sex, money, or even who picks up the socks.

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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

Wired for Love is a complete insider’s guide to understanding your partner’s brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust.

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How to Maintain Great Eye Contact During Difficult Conversations with Your Spouse

The eyes are the windows to the soul, right? Sure, why not? Maybe that vulnerability of being able to look right into someone is what makes eye-contact difficult, particularly during arguments. Maybe it's something more visceral and primal, like a challenge.

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FindCenter Quotes ImageDevote yourself to your partner’s sense of safety and security and not simply to your idea about what that should be. What may make you feel safe and secure may not be what your partner requires from you.

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3 Secrets to a Long-Lasting Happy Marriage | Stan Tatkin and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin

Relationship experts and couple, Stan Tatkin PsyD, MFT and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD reveal the three secrets to a long, happy marriage.

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We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love

In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You’ll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.

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A Psychologist’s Top Tips for Beating Chronic Stress

As a psychotherapist, I'm not surprised at the level of chronic stress I am encountering. In our country right now, it seems that every day brings a new crisis and news that many people find disturbing.

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FindCenter Quotes ImageCouples in distress too often turn to solutions that can be summed up by ‘you do your thing and I’ll do my thing’ or ‘you take care of yourself and I’ll take care of myself.

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How to End Pandemic Fights with Your Partner

Couples’ fights in lockdown are often about the unremitting intensity of togetherness. The sooner you de-escalate a fight, the sooner you can begin working on real solutions.

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Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate

Everybody wants someone to love and spend time with, and searching for your ideal partner is a natural and healthy human tendency. Just about everyone dates at some point in their lives, yet few really understand what they're doing or how to get the best results.

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