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Codependency



Codependency refers to an imbalanced relationship pattern learned in early childhood. While feeling responsible for a loved one is natural, a relationship can become unhealthy when a person’s identity becomes wrapped up in caring for, supporting, or “fixing” another while subordinating their own needs. This can create a self-enforcing harmful relationship. The excessive care and emotional investment required in codependent relationships can leave a person feeling helpless and trapped, but there are healthy and constructive ways to reset boundaries and reinvest in interdependent relationships.

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Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

End the struggle, speak up for what you need, and experience the freedom of being truly yourself. Healthy boundaries. We all know we should have them—in order to achieve work/life balance, cope with toxic people, and enjoy rewarding relationships with partners, friends, and family.

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FindCenterIf you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.

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The Language of Letting Go

Written for those of us who struggle with codependency, these daily meditations offer growth and renewal, and remind us that the best thing we can do is take responsibility for our own self-care.

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Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency + Codependent Relationships | Wu Wei Wisdom

Episode #42 of our 'Walk the Wu Wei' teaching series - watch Taoist monk and therapist, David James Lees, and life coach, Alexandra Lees, as they share their essential life lessons live and unscripted.

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The Codependency Manifesto: Clearing the Way Out of the Codependent Mind

Liberate yourself from the tyranny of codependency. When you are codependent, you are unconscious. You do not know that emotional neglect has caused your brain to believe life is a threatening reality. Instead of believing you are worthy of love, you feel unworthy of love.

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FindCenterDesiring another person is perhaps the most risky endeavor of all. As soon as you want somebody—really want him—it is as though you have taken a surgical needle and sutured your happiness to the skin of that person, so that any separation will now cause a lacerating injury.

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Codependency

Codependency does not qualify as a mental health diagnosis, mostly because the symptoms are so widely applicable. Yet it can still cause severe distress.

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Robert Masters on Stages of Relationship

Robert and Diane discuss the four stages of relationship. Great intro to the basic concepts of the Masters approach to relational intimacy.

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Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You

In Conquering Shame and Codependency, Darlene Lancer sheds new light on shame: how codependents’ feelings and beliefs about shame affect their identity, their behavior, and how shame can corrode relationships, destroying trust and love.

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FindCenterHe discovered the cruel paradox by which we always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love—first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage.

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