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Self-Reckoning



Self-reckoning is the practice of intense, honest reflection when we realize we have done something wrong. This not only includes self-reflection, but holding ourselves accountable to the people we may have hurt. This is not intended to be a process of self-flagellation or promotion of guilt, but rather an assessment of what thoughts, beliefs, and feelings led to our choices, acknowledgement of the harm those choices have caused, and how we will work to prevent the same choices from being made again.

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Freedom from Self-Doubt—B.J. Davis—TEDxSacramentoSalon

A former felon, turned doctor, clinical director, and professor, Dr. B J Davis is living proof that our past doesn’t dictate our future. Our past can refine us. He shares his story of coming to the realization that he needed to create own miracle. Dr.

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Fried: Why You Burn Out and How to Revive

Burnout looks a lot like depression, but it's not a biological bogeyman that medication or simple stress management can cure.

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Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values

A penetrating examination of how we live and how to live better. A narration of a summer motorcycle trip undertaken by a father and his son, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance becomes a personal and philosophical odyssey into fundamental questions on how to live.

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FindCenterPeople’s sense of self-worth is pivotal to their ability to look clearly at the hurt they’ve caused. The more solid one’s sense of self regard, the more likely that that person can feel empathy and compassion for the hurt party, and apologize from an authentic center.

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Unlearning the Ways of the System

“Unlearning the ways of the system means routing out the domination, aggression and violence we have internalized into our own lives, which are dulling our minds and stopping our ears.”

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The Path Is Everywhere: Uncovering the Jewels Hidden Within You

Drawing on my personal journey as well as my work with others as a therapist and guide, I wrote The Path Is Everywhere with the intention that it serve as a provocative, alive, and compassionate invitation to re-enchant our ideas about healing and spiritual awakening in the modern world.

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Clarifying My Past

And I am not finished with my personal work; it’s not something to be done with, but is an intrinsic part of my life. I am still learning. It’s easy to forget or only superficially acknowledge that we’re all in the same boat.

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FindCenterI learned again and again in my life, until you get your own act together, you’re not ready for Big Love. What you’re ready for is one of those codependent relationships where you desperately need a partner.

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Debbie Ford "Honesty and Integrity"

A New York Times best-selling author, Debbie Ford is an internationally acclaimed expert on the shadow and personal transformation.

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Way of the Peaceful Warrior: A Book that Changes Lives

A book that could change your life: When Dan Millman was a young man, he expected that hard work would eventually bring a life of comfort, wisdom, and happiness. Yet, despite his many successes, he was haunted by the feeling that something was missing.

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