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Esther Perel: How to Be Assertive Without Being Aggressive

By Esther Perel — 2017

“How do I assert myself as a man without coming across as too forceful?” - Carl, Washington DC This is a critical question at this moment in time. Many men, especially young men come to me with this dilemma—how can I be assertive and confident, without being aggressive and arrogant?

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Masculine/Feminine Dynamics