William addresses these issues in this video:
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What about their last words? Shouldn’t I help them say whatever is on their mind? I felt that I should have done this with my mother.
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Yes - There is unfinished business. It would be good to have it completed before they go. It will bring them relief.
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With my dad there came point where I felt that I could say: ’It is okay for you to go now, Dad.’ And I did say that. And I felt the atmosphere in the room relax and he died peacefully a few hours later.
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Hospice nurse: Yes that is about Letting Go. The person duding has to let go - but so do the people and family around them. There seems to be a sticky magnetism that can hold people back from tasing over.
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All of this is about what you call a ‘good death’. But what about all those ends of life where there is pain, distress and fear? What happens then?
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Yes - and what happens with suicides and war zones?
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Can you say some more about bardo/purgatory?
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And why are there ghosts?