By Amitav Ghosh — 2002
An account of Shahid’s last months and life work by his friend, the writer Amitav Ghosh.
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There is a care farm in Arizona where rescue animals are helping people deal with traumatic grief.
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The fear of death and dying is quite common, and most people fear death to varying degrees. To what extent that fear occurs and what it pertains to specifically varies from one person to another.
Both parents and adult children often fail to recognize how profoundly the rules of family life have changed over the past half century.
Throughout his profound spiritual awakening, the great Tibetan yogi Shabkar experienced immense loss resulting in grief marked by raw pain, a sense of disorientation, sadness, and tears.
"But now we’re asked — and sometimes forced — to carry grief as a solitary burden. And the psyche knows we are not capable of handling grief in isolation." - Francis Weller
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Instead of the routine, "Your mother’s fine; we’re calling to inform you about…” this time the nurse said, “Your mother has stopped eating. - Sabina Nawaz
The mismatch between the knowledge and the longing is perhaps the most anguishing of all human experiences.
In the months before my father died, I asked him a version of that question: How will I live without you?
Losing a parent is among the most emotionally difficult and universal of human experiences. Most people will experience the loss of their mother or father in their lifetime.
Delayed grief is sometimes triggered by an event later in life, experts say.