By Integrative Psychotherapy Team
Abandonment is a primal fear to all, a fear of being isolated, and alone.
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Both parents and adult children often fail to recognize how profoundly the rules of family life have changed over the past half century.
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I worked with a therapist to cope with this estrangement for 10 years, but it wasn't until I had my daughter that I was truly inspired to put in the work to become a better person and the mom I never had.
Abandonment is a nasty Sonofab*tch to deal with.
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A young man returns to the Vietnamese orphanage he had spent 25 years trying to forget.
Heidi McBain, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, says it’s important for an individual with abandonment issues to then “acknowledge that they are hurting and in pain, and that this situation is going to be hard, but they are strong and will get through it.”
Healthy human development requires knowing that physical and emotional needs are met. During childhood, this reassurance comes from parents. During adulthood, it can come from personal and romantic relationships.
Abandonment issues arise when an individual has a strong fear of losing loved ones. A fear of abandonment is a form of anxiety. It often begins in childhood when a child experiences a traumatic loss.
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Although it is not an official phobia, the fear of abandonment is arguably one of the most common and most damaging fears of all.
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Healthy human development requires needs for physical and emotional care to be met. Unmet needs can result in feelings of abandonment.