By Lydia Kiesling — 2019
Time follows no standard when you become a parent.
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This talk was presented at the March 2019 I Am Mom Summit (an online conference for Moms). Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS, licensed psychotherapist specializing in relationship and sexuality counseling.
Audre Lorde reads the essay “Uses of the Erotic: the Erotic as Power.” There are some ad-libs, but this reading is pretty faithful to the final text, which can be found in Lorde’s essay collection Sister Outsider, among other anthologies. One of the most important essays of the 20th century.
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The sexual revolution is unfinished. A sexual double standard between men and women still exists, and society continues to punish bad girls and reward good ones. Until we eliminate good-girl privilege and bad-girl stigma, women will not be fully free to embrace their sexuality.