By Celeste Ng — 2021
What does love look like in a time of hate? Asian and Asian-American photographers and essayists respond.
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CLEAR ALL
You’ve probably heard of culture shock, the feeling of disorientation a person feels when faced with another culture, way of life, or set of attitudes. For me, it was twofold: I was in a new country and I was a new mom, two ways in which my own life suddenly felt utterly unfamiliar.
I want my daughter to see that an Indigenous way of life isn’t an alternative lifestyle but a priority. It is essential, then, that I return to the parenting principles of my ancestors and consciously integrate Indigenous kinship practices into her childhood.
How to stop hating yourself and your step-kid, as well.
The children are angry and vulnerable, the father sides with them out of guilt, and stepmothers are just expected to suck it all up
Our child is not just one of us. He is both of us. He is both our cultures. And as a family, we are both cultures together.
I’d never felt so white in my life—and that was before she saw me completely naked.
Deciding how to handle dating situations can be an issue in any relationship.
I know that my biracial children will experience racism, sexism and intolerance. But I want them to be bold enough to not push people away and instead seek to understand through education. This is how we bring radical change through our children.
The very qualities that lead to greater emotional satisfaction in peer marriages, as one sociologist calls them, may be having an unexpectedly negative impact on these couples’ sex lives.
"Grown don't mean nothing to a mother. A child is a child. They get bigger, older, but grown? What's that suppose to mean? In my heart, it don't mean a thing." — From Beloved, by Toni Morrison
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