There’s a widespread belief that if you have solid self-esteem you don’t need outside affirmation and praise. This is patently untrue, by the way.
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Why You Should Worry Less About Your Network and More About Your Inner Circle
By Jessica Stillman — 2018
Want to get more out of your relationships? Be bold and shrink your social circle.
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