ARTICLE
An Astrologer Explains Why You Shouldn't Look at Your Crush's Chart
By Jessica Lanyadoo — 2017
When you fixate on what others are or aren’t doing based on their astrology, you can weave a narrative that’s both convincing and convenient, but true intimacy can't be developed when you're operating from ideas about what you think you know about a person.
YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE
CLEAR ALL
BY TOPIC
BY TEACHER
BY TYPE
FILTER
TOPIC
- Intimacy (43)
- Life Challenges (32)
- Self-Discovery (31)
- Divorce and Breakup (22)
- Divination Systems (21)
- Sex (21)
- Neurodiversity (20)
- Personality Typing (16)
- Love (14)
- Neuroscience (13)
- Self-Development (13)
- ADD/ADHD (11)
- Autism (11)
- Family Dynamics (11)
- New Relationships (11)
- Resilience (11)
- Toxic Relationships (10)
- Enneagram (9)
- Friendship (9)
- Self-Reflection Practices (9)
- Trust (9)
- Authenticity (8)
- Forgiveness (8)
- Mindfulness (8)
- Parenting (8)
- Saturn Return (8)
- Self-Acceptance (8)
- Withholding (8)
- Inner Life (7)
- Personal Development (7)
- Transformation (7)
- Transitions (7)
- Work Relationships (7)
- Compassion (6)
- Connection (6)
- Finding Meaning (6)
- Love Languages (6)
- Passive-Aggressive Behavior (6)
- Self-Love (6)
- Self-Realization (6)
- Attachment Theory (5)
- Infidelity (5)
- Masculine/Feminine Dynamics (5)
- Self-Compassion (5)
- Self-Worth (5)
- Setting Limits and Boundaries (5)
- Speaking Your Truth (5)
- Tarot (5)
- Buddhism (4)
- Cancer (4)
- Conflict Resolution (4)
- Empathy (4)
- Fellowship and Community (4)
- Gratitude (4)
- Grief (4)
- Grit (4)
- Human Potential (4)
- Letting Go (4)
- LGBTQIA Relationships (4)
- Motherhood (4)
- Narcissism (4)
- Presence (4)
- Psychology and Spirituality (4)
- Runes (4)
- Search for Purpose (4)
- Self-Esteem (4)
- Self-Reckoning (4)
- Social Responsibility (4)
- Spiritual Development (4)
- Spiritual Growth (4)
- Spiritual Life (4)
- Women’s Well-Being (4)
- Acceptance (3)
- Accepting Love (3)
- Addiction (3)
- Anger (3)
- Courage (3)
- Decision Making (3)
- Diamond Approach (3)
- Disconnection (3)
- Dysfunctional Childhood (3)
- Emotional and Mental Health (3)
- Empowerment (3)
- Highly Sensitive People (3)
- Honoring Emotion (3)
- Identity (3)
- Inner Strengths (3)
- Intention (3)
- Leadership (3)
- LGBTQIA Well-Being (3)
- Lovingkindness (3)
- Midlife Crisis (3)
- Mindfulness Practices (3)
- Optimism (3)
- Science and Spirituality (3)
- Self-Actualization (3)
- Self-Care (3)
- Self-Expression (3)
- Self-Healing (3)
- Spiritual Awakening (3)
- Spiritual Practices (3)
- Spirituality and Health (3)
- Stress Management (3)
- Tibetan Buddhism (3)
- Vulnerability (3)
- Well-Being (3)
- Work Challenges (3)
- Adaptability (2)
- Aging (2)
- Asatru (Norse) Paganism (2)
- Awareness (2)
- BIPOC Well-Being (2)
- Chinese Astrology (2)
- Codependency (2)
- Collaboration (2)
- Community Healing (2)
- Consciousness (2)
- Death or Loss of a Loved One (2)
- Ego (2)
- Failure (2)
- Gender Challenges (2)
- Generosity (2)
- Goddess (2)
- Growth Mindset (2)
- Guilt (2)
- Habit Formation (2)
- Happiness (2)
- Inner Peace (2)
- Intuition (2)
- Joy (2)
- Jungian Analysis (2)
- LGBTQIA Sexuality (2)
- Magic (2)
- Magick (2)
- Meditation (2)
- Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (2)
- Negative Self-Talk (2)
- Neopaganism (2)
- Nonviolence (2)
- Numerology (2)
- Offering Support to Others (2)
- Paganism (2)
- Psychology (2)
- Regret (2)
- Relationship with Time (2)
- Retirement (2)
- Self-Limiting Beliefs (2)
- Shame (2)
- Social Anxiety (2)
- Stress (2)
- Talk Therapy (2)
- Taoism (2)
- Trauma Healing (2)
- Values (2)
- Witch (2)
- Witchcraft (2)
- Work-Life Balance (2)
- Academic Struggles (1)
- Activism/Service (1)
- Affirmations (1)
- Anger Management (1)
- Anxiety (1)
- Asking for Help (1)
- Belonging (1)
- Buddha Nature (1)
- Building Character (1)
- Challenges with Teens (1)
- Child’s Emotional Growth (1)
- Children’s Well-Being (1)
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (1)
- Confidence (1)
- Connection with Nature (1)
- Cross-Cultural Parenting (1)
- Curiosity (1)
- Death and Dying (1)
- Death or Loss of a Parent (1)
- Dharma (1)
- Digital Life (1)
- Disabled Well-Being (1)
- Domestic Abuse (1)
- Dream Analysis (1)
- Emotional Intelligence (EQ) (1)
- Emotional Labor (1)
- Entrepreneurship (1)
- Facing Own Death (1)
- Faith (1)
- Fear (1)
- Female Empowerment (1)
- Focus (1)
- Freedom (1)
- Gender Identity (1)
- Habits of Mind (1)
- Hope (1)
- Household Labor (1)
- Imagination and Creativity (1)
- Indigenous Well-Being (1)
- Integrity (1)
- Interdependence (1)
- Kundalini (1)
- Learning Styles (1)
- Leaving a Religion (1)
- Life-Altering Injury (1)
- Loneliness (1)
- Loss of an Animal Companion (1)
- Manifestation (1)
- Mediums (1)
- Men’s Well-Being (1)
- Mindfulness Meditation (1)
- Mysticism (1)
- Neuroplasticity (1)
- Nonbinary Well-Being (1)
- Passion (1)
- Past Lives and Reincarnation (1)
- Perception (1)
- Positive Psychology (1)
- Positive Thinking (1)
- Post-Traumatic Growth (1)
- Prayer (1)
- Psychic Abilities (1)
- Quantum Physics (1)
- Raising Daughters (1)
- Relationship with Money (1)
- Ritual (1)
- Self-Control (1)
- Self-Mastery (1)
- Self-Reliance (1)
- Sexual Health (1)
- Sexuality (1)
- Shadow (1)
- Social Psychology (1)
- Spiritual Crisis (1)
- Spiritual Healing (1)
- Spiritual Quest (1)
- Spirituality and Politics (1)
- Stoicism (1)
- Suffering (1)
- The Divine (1)
- Trauma (1)
- Wholeness (1)
- Wicca (1)
- Work Ethic (1)
- Yin/Yang (1)
FILTER
TEACHER
- Helen Fisher (8)
- Gary Chapman (7)
- Gay Hendricks (7)
- Helen LaKelly Hunt (7)
- Julie Schwartz Gottman (6)
- Russ Hudson (6)
- C. S. Lewis (5)
- Chani Nicholas (5)
- Kathlyn Hendricks (5)
- Ramani Durvasula (5)
- Stan Tatkin (5)
- Jessica Lanyadoo (4)
- John Bradshaw (4)
- Russell Brand (4)
- Colin Bedell (3)
- Elizabeth Lesser (3)
- John Welwood (3)
- Lisa Chamberlain (3)
- Martin Luther King Jr. (3)
- SARK (3)
- Terri Cole (3)
- Terry Real (3)
- A. H. Almaas (2)
- Alain de Botton (2)
- Brendon Burchard (2)
- Craig Hamilton (2)
- Diane Stein (2)
- Elaine Aron (2)
- Gary Zukav (2)
- Iyanla Vanzant (2)
- Jay Shetty (2)
- Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo (2)
- Liz Greene (2)
- Lori Gottlieb (2)
- Maya Angelou (2)
- Oprah Winfrey (2)
- Rick Hanson (2)
- Robert Augustus Masters (2)
- Sharon Strand Ellison (2)
- Shefali Tsabary (2)
- Thich Nhat Hanh (2)
- Tony Gaskins Jr. (2)
- adrienne maree brown (1)
- Alan Cohen (1)
- Anna Sale (1)
- Bernie S. Siegel (1)
- Biet Simkin (1)
- Brené Brown (1)
- Bruce Lipton (1)
- Byron Katie (1)
- Chan Khong (1)
- Daniel Amen (1)
- Danielle LaPorte (1)
- David Whyte (1)
- Diane Ackerman (1)
- don Miguel Ruiz (1)
- don Miguel Ruiz Jr. (1)
- Dorothy Firman (1)
- Edward Hallowell (1)
- Edward Hoffman (1)
- Elizabeth Gilbert (1)
- Forrest Hanson (1)
- Frederic Luskin (1)
- Geneen Roth (1)
- Gretchen Rubin (1)
- HeatherAsh Amara (1)
- Jack Canfield (1)
- Jeff Foster (1)
- Joseph Goldstein (1)
- Judy Hall (1)
- Julia Cameron (1)
- Karen Casey (1)
- Karen Johnson (1)
- Kim Eng (1)
- Lewis Howes (1)
- Linda Graham (1)
- Lodro Rinzler (1)
- Louise Hay (1)
- Marianne Williamson (1)
- Marie Forleo (1)
- Mark Victor Hansen (1)
- Melanie Joy (1)
- Norman Fischer (1)
- Panache Desai (1)
- Pema Chödrön (1)
- Phillip Moffitt (1)
- Rachel Pollack (1)
- Rainer Maria Rilke (1)
- Ralph Metzner (1)
- Resmaa Menakem (1)
- Rob Brezsny (1)
- Robert Bly (1)
- Scott Cunningham (1)
- Simon Sinek (1)
- Stephen Covey (1)
- Susan Piver (1)
- Tara Brach (1)
- Thomas Moore (1)
- Thubten Chodron (1)
- Zainab Salbi (1)