By Sharmin Tunguz — 2020
Emotional labor is a paid chore, not a household chore.
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When workers’ emotions deviate from what’s expected of their gender, they are often left to process the backlash on their own.
Men are more likely than ever to embrace the idea of gender equality, but when it comes to the home front, traditional values dominate.
My husband is a smart, caring guy. So why was it so hard for him to understand and appreciate how much extra work I was doing to benefit our family and the home—and the eventual burnout effect it was likely to have on me?
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The very qualities that lead to greater emotional satisfaction in peer marriages, as one sociologist calls them, may be having an unexpectedly negative impact on these couples’ sex lives.
It wasn’t a big deal to me when I was married. But it was a big deal to her.
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