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What Everyone’s Calling ‘Emotional Labor’ Is Actually Just Labor

By Marie Solis — 2019

Calling holiday planning “emotional labor” can be counterproductive to recognizing housework as labor.

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Debunking Relationship Myths: An Interview with John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman

In all kinds of relationships, people have conflict and disagreements and hurt one another's feelings. What determines the success of the relationship is the way people deal with conflict, the nature of their friendship and intimacy, and their shared meaning system.

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Omega Institute
2014
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Making Relationships Work

Unless you’re a hermit, you can’t avoid relationships. And your professional career certainly won’t go anywhere if you don’t know how to build strong, positive connections. Leaders need to connect deeply with followers if they hope to engage and inspire them.

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Diane Coutu
2007
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In Search of Erotic Intelligence

Couples are having less sex these days than even in the famously uptight ’50s. Why?

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Esther Perel
2003
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How to Fix the Co-Founder Fights You're Sick of Having—Lessons from Couples Therapist Esther Perel

This article is by psychotherapist, bestselling author, TED Speaker and podcast host Esther Perel.

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Esther Perel
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Three Simple Rules for Criticizing a Difficult Person

These three rules for voicing your criticisms are game changers.

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Harriet Lerner
2020
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Overcoming Your Listening Disorder

We naturally become defensive when our spouse begins to criticize us. We listen to refute or correct the inaccuracies, distortions and exaggerations that are inevitably there. The challenge is to listen only to understand.

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Harriet Lerner
2012
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‘I Realized I Don’t Have to Believe My Thoughts’

Our mindfulness practice is not about vanquishing our thoughts. It’s about becoming aware of the process of thinking so that we are not in a trance—lost inside our thoughts.

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Tara Brach
2014
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Tara Brach on How Meditation Brings Healing to Workplace Fears During Turbulent Times

During the global pandemic and racialized unrest, we all need pathways to calm, clarity and openheartedness. While it’s natural to feel fear during times of great collective crises, our challenge is that fear easily takes over our lives.

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Bryan Robinson
2020
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A 10-Minute Meditation on Love Connection

Explore this mindfulness practice from Tara Brach for keeping the lines of communication open and maintaining a deep, loving connection.

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Tara Brach
2017
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Healing Relationships Through Compassion and Connection

Applying Buddhist teachings to emotional healing with relationships, marriage, and lust.

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Tara Brach
2017
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