Letting ourselves be forgiven is one of the most difficult healings we will undertake. And one of the most fruitful.
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Why Self-Compassion Trumps Self-Esteem
By Kristin Neff — 2011
Researcher Kristin Neff reveals the benefits of going easy on yourself: less anxiety, less conflict, and more peace of mind.
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