Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness to others.
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From the Heart: Where to Find the Love of Your Life
By Alan Cohen — 2020
Were we really born to be constantly working on our love life, or were we born to be enjoying it?
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