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Is Swapping Date Night for Meeting Night the Secret to a Happy Marriage?
By Allison Sweet Grant, Adam Grant — 2017
Date night is so last year. What you ought to want is a meeting night. It may not be the sexiest concept, but listen up: This couple swears it's the way to guarantee true happiness, long term.
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