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Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. And trust your instincts...good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt. They’re not painful. That’s not just with somebody you want to marry, but it’s with the friends that you choose. It’s with the people you surround yourselves with.

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Michelle Obama is an American lawyer, writer, and the wife of former US President Barack Obama. She was a Chicago city administrator and community outreach worker, and during her time as First Lady, she focused her attention on poverty, education, and healthy living.

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