Anita Moorjani is a Singaporean speaker and New York Times bestselling author who speaks on her experience of after a four-year battle with cancer, falling into a coma for thirty days and coming out of it reporting a near-death experience.
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Life’s work is to wake up, to let the things that enter into the circle wake you up rather than put you to sleep. The only way to do this is to open, be curious, and develop some sense of sympathy for everything that comes along, to get to know its nature and let it teach you what it will.
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It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for a bird to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad.
We meet no ordinary people in our lives.
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Stay a verb—don’t become a noun.
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Empathetic listening is an awesome medication for the hurting heart.
. . . it is almost always the case that whatever has wounded you will also be instrumental in your healing.
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We must not confuse letting go of past injuries with feeling an obligation to let the injurers back into our life. The freedom of forgiveness often includes a firm boundary and loving distance from those who have harmed us.
If only our passion to understand others were as great as our passion to be understood. Were this so, all our apologies would be truly meaningful and healing.
Respect the fact that all you do and are now has evolved for a good reason and serves an important purpose.
When forgiveness experts talk in binary language (’You either forgive the wrongdoer or you are a prisoner of your own anger and hate’), they are collapsing the messy complexity of human emotions into a simplistic dichotomous equation.