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The Mental Divorce | Dr. John Gottman

By John Gottman — 2010

The ability to accept influence is critical for solving difficult problems in relationships. In this clip Dr. Gottman explains what happens when partners cannot accept influence from each other. Fortunately, there are ways to talk and build trust enough to learn how to do this.

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Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After

We enter our romantic relationships with great love, hope, and excitement—we’ve found the ‘one,’ so we plan and forge our futures together. But sometimes, for many different reasons, relationships come undone; they don’t work out.

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Katherine Woodward Thomas
2016
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Something Gained: 7 Shifts to Be Stronger, Smarter & Happier After Divorce

Whether you're newly divorced or have been divorced for a long while, feelings of shame, anger, and regret can linger for months and even years. The good news is that you have a choice about how you want to view your divorce experience.

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Deb Purdy
2017
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Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making Two Homes for Your Child

Internationally renowned therapist, family expert and mediator Isolina Ricci, Ph.D. presents this definitive and newly updated guide to divorce and making shared custody work for parents and children.

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Isolina Ricci
1997
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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.

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Lori Gottlieb
2019
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Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You

A proven plan for overcoming the painful end of any romantic relationship, including divorce, with practical strategies for healing, getting your confidence back, and finding true love It's over–and it really hurts.

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Susan J. Elliott
2009
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We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love

In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You’ll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.

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Stan Tatkin
2018
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Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

Wired for Love is a complete insider’s guide to understanding your partner’s brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust.

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Stan Tatkin
2012
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Chicken Soup for the Soul: From Lemons to Lemonade

From lemons to lemonade; from heartbreak to happiness; from victim to victorious.

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Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Amy Newmark
2013
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Peace from Broken Pieces: How to Get Through What You’re Going Through

In this honest and searching book, New York Times best-selling author Iyanla Vanzant recounts the last decade of her profoundly human journey and shares her own hard lessons to inspire you to put your personal puzzle back together.

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Iyanla Vanzant
2012
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Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples (Third Edition)

Getting the Love You Want has helped millions of people experience more satisfying relationships and is recommended every day by professional therapists and happy couples around the world. Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr.

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Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
2019
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Divorce and Breakup