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Why we love, why we cheat - Helen Fisher

By Helen Fisher — 2007

Anthropologist Helen Fisher takes on a tricky topic -- love - and explains its evolution, its biochemical foundations and its social importance. She closes with a warning about the potential disaster inherent in antidepressant abuse.

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33:30

Big Think Interview with Helen Fisher

A conversation with the biological anthropologist and Rutgers University professor Helen Fisher

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Helen Fisher
2012
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Kwik Brain Episode 108: Heal a Broken Heart with Dr. Shefali Tsabary

In this conversation, we delve into some of the biggest misconceptions surrounding relationships, why we need to invest in ourselves, and why romantic love is a delusion.

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Shefali Tsabary
2019
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Better Intimacy for Her, Better Sex for Him & Vice Versa | Amy Color | TEDxStanleyPark

Sex is not intimacy.

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2018
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The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship | Esther Perel

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise.

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Esther Perel
2013
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14:58

Undressing Disability | Emily Yates | TEDxYouth@StPeterPort

Emily's talk on sex and disability is inspiring and thought-provoking. She addresses the issue of sex and relationships for the disabled, and how disabled communities can have access to this, which others usually take for granted.

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2016
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The Birth of Relational Joy: Terry Real

Speaking at the Radiant Intimacy gathering in 2019 Terry Real tells the audience that we recreate the relationships that we learned—how we were held—and that there is no intimacy without equality.

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Terry Real
2019
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When Your Partner Feels Like a Roommate

Have you ever felt like your partner is more of a roommate than a romantic partner or spouse? Maybe you two make a fantastic team—getting the laundry done, going to the grocery store, getting the kids to and from school—but it doesn’t feel like a relationship.

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2018
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Bradshaw On: The Eight Stages of Man (1982) E6: They Lived Happily Ever After

Episode Six: They Lived Happily Ever After. Psychologist/Theologian John Bradshaw traces human life through eight stages of psychosocial development (based on the works of Erik Erikson) focusing on the ego needs and strengths of each stage.

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John Bradshaw
2016
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What Is “Intimacy Avoidance”? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)

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Ramani Durvasula
2020
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54:58

Tony Gaskins on Leading with Love, Relationship Roles, Making Love to the Mind + More

Author and life coach Tony Gaskins stopped by to talk about leading with love and making love with the mind.

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Tony Gaskins Jr.
2019
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