Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say ‘My heart is broken.’
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Outer Order, Inner Calm: Declutter and Organize to Make Room for Happiness
By Gretchen Rubin — 2019
In my study of happiness, I’ve realized that for most of us, outer order contributes to inner calm. More than it should.
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