By Martha Beck — 2009
It's not that I'm blind to life's fragility or the dangers around me. It's just that I possess a gift offered by many mistake-filled years: At my age, I have a pretty good idea what and whom to trust.
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I’m the first to admit that for many years, I was a bit emotionally needy. Not in a crazy, desperate way, but in the way that many of us are. I wanted someone else to make me happy, blamed others for my unhappiness, sought to fulfill my emotional needs through others.
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I was told that I should receive an appointment in about six to eight weeks, but my gut was telling me that something wasn’t right, so I decided I wanted to get it investigated sooner than that.
“Never stop asking. Stay on those doctors. If you feel something is wrong and your doctor isn’t doing something, go to someone else.”
I now realize that a framed piece of paper saying that someone is a doctor will never trump a gut intuition.
Done right, individualism has tremendous benefits for our senses of competence, effectiveness, and life direction.
“To thine own self be true.” ~ William Shakespeare
No one has made more beautiful nor more convincing a case for trusting our inner voice than Ralph Waldo Emerson.
A look at what being self-reliant really refers to, and how we can develop it within ourselves.
Still clinging to the fears and fury of childhood? You can unarrest your development once and for all.
More than a century ago, William James explained how to combat passivity.