By Sylvia Boorstein — 2016
“There are no human enemies,” says Sylvia Boorstein, “only confused people needing help.”
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CLEAR ALL
Our culture has taught us that we do not have the privilege of being vulnerable like other communities.
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Judaism offers a series of ideas and guidelines for how to cope with offense and foster forgiveness. On Yom Kippur, it’s traditional to wear white, not only because white shows the slightest stain, but to remind us of the shrouds in which we will one day be buried.
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Sheila Rubin writes about transformance, a term used to describe “the force in the psyche that’s moving towards growth and expansion and transformation,” and the idea that healing is “not just an outcome but a process that exists within each person that emerges in conditions of safety.”
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At a weekend workshop I led, one of the participants, Marian, shared her story about the shame and guilt that had tortured her.