I learned again and again in my life, until you get your own act together, you’re not ready for Big Love. What you’re ready for is one of those codependent relationships where you desperately need a partner.
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Eight Keys to Forgiveness
By Robert Enright — 2015
Forgiveness can be incredibly difficult. Robert Enright explains where to start.
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