By Adam Sternbergh
The most popular course at Yale teaches how to be happy. We took it for you.
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It’s important to keep up with self-care for long-term, sustainable social activism.
Question: Buddhist teachers, including the Dalai Lama, often speak of happiness as a goal (if not the goal) of Buddhist practice. I don’t begrudge anyone happiness, but making it so central to spiritual life feels self-serving. Am I misunderstanding what’s meant by “happiness”?
It’s surprisingly easy to achieve lasting happiness — we just have to understand our own basic nature. The hard part, says Mingyur Rinpoche, is getting over our bad habit of seeking happiness in transient experiences.
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Sneezing, coughing, blowing her nose—Natalie Goldberg was awfully sick yet she was happy. Happiness is available to everyone, she realized, but we can find it only when we’re still.
We don’t have to reject scientific logic in order to benefit from instinct.
If you’re constantly castigating friends and family, you may be overlooking a truly tragic flaw.
Instead of asking what you should do, consider who you want to be.