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The Fantasy Bond: Structure of Psychological Defenses
By Robert W. Firestone — 1987
This book offers a hypothesis centering around the concept of the “Fantasy Bond,” an illusion of connection formed with the mother and later with significant others in the individual’s environment.
FULL SUMMARY
This book offers a hypothesis centering around the concept of the “Fantasy Bond,” an illusion of connection formed with the mother and later with significant others in the individual’s environment.
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