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You are a child of God, and that alone makes you worthy of care and love. If your guard is up, let it down. If you’ve constructed a defensive wall to protect yourself and keep all the bad guys out, don’t forget who that wall also prevents from getting in—the good guys.

By Brendon Burchard
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Brendon Burchard is a motivational leadership speaker, consultant, podcast host, and bestselling author specializing in life coaching, goal setting, and achieving high levels of personal performance.

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