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The earth will support anything that supports life. What I have found after a soul retrieval is that one cannot ‘numb out’ anymore. Each and every one of us must make personal and planetary decisions to stop abusing life. Whether a person a has to give up an abusive relationship, take a more active political role, or increase awareness of how we continue to abuse our environment, we all now have to be responsible . . . .

By Sandra Ingerman
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Sandra Ingerman, MA, is an American licensed therapist, shamanic practitioner, and teacher. Her books address various aspects of shamanic practice, including journeying, soul retrieval, ceremony, and communicating with nature beings such as spirit animals and plant spirits.

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