If you want to awaken all of humanity, then awaken all of yourself. If you want to eliminate the suffering in the world, then eliminate all that is dark and negative in yourself. Truly, the greatest gift you have to give is that of your own self-transformation.
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VIDEO
Love Hurts: Buddhist Advice for the Heartbroken
By
Lodro Rinzler
— 2016
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Buddhist advice for the heartbroken.
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Buddhist advice for the heartbroken.
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