I learned again and again in my life, until you get your own act together, you’re not ready for Big Love. What you’re ready for is one of those codependent relationships where you desperately need a partner.
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The Ego and the Universe: Alan Watts on Becoming Who You Really Are
By Maria Popova
The cause of and cure for the illusion of separateness that keeps us from embracing the richness of life.
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