We need to move beyond Darwinian Theory, which stresses the importance of individuals, to one that stresses the importance of the community.
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How to Befriend People You Don’t Like
By Allison Briscoe-Smith — 2004
One successful way to combat prejudice, it seems, is by serving as a model to others.
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