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Boundary Confusion



Boundary confusion refers to an assumption of intimacy that is not agreed upon by both parties, which leads to a sense of violation or crossing the line. It reflects a failure to recognize the physical or psychological boundary and distinctiveness of the other by either presumption of connection or lack of awareness of another’s personal space. It can be confusing for someone who feels they made a mistake but doesn’t understand why or how, and it can be alarming for those whose signals are being misread.

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Managing Boundaries and Dual Relationships

Boundary issues occur when social workers establish more than one relationship with clients or former clients, whether professional, social, or business. These typically involve dual (or multiple) relationships.

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Conversation with Sociologist and Cult Specialist Dr. Janja Lalich

Meet Dr. Janja Lalich, a sociologist, cult specialist, author, researcher, and retired professor who has spent years studying high-control groups including the Jehovah’s Witnesses. Dr. Lalich is also herself a former cult member.

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Addict in the House: A No-Nonsense Family Guide Through Addiction and Recovery

Everyone suffers when there’s an addict in the family. Written by an expert in alcohol and drug addiction and recovery, this no-nonsense guide will help you understand the causes of addiction, end enabling behaviors, support your loved one’s recovery, and learn how to cope with relapses.

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How to Heal After Your Teacher Crosses the Line

Here are some recommendations from contemplative psychotherapy for working with transgressions by or painful break with a spiritual teacher.

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This Is How I Protect My Energy...

In this week’s episode, I will be talking about my post, “I Protect My Energy By,” and answering this week’s question: How can I let go of an ex that I still care about?

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Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse

Within every community, toxic people can be found hiding in families, couples, companies, and places of worship. The cryptic nature of psychological abuse involves repetitious mind games played by one individual or a group of people. Psychological abuse leaves no bruises. There are no broken bones.

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6 Types of Boundaries You Deserve to Have (and How to Maintain Them)

Boundaries are what happen when you can sense yourself and what you need and want and access your voice to speak to those things.

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Defining Your Boundaries

Setting effective boundaries starts with knowing who you are and how you feel. Luckily, your nervous system sets physical boundaries for you in every moment, and you can grab onto these pre-existing boundaries to help define yourself and tune into your own emotions and your own needs.

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Sex and the Spiritual Teacher: Why It Happens, When It’s a Problem, and What We All Can Do

Sex and the Spiritual Teacher looks at the complex of forces that tempt otherwise insightful, compassionate, and well-intentioned teachers to lose their way—and that tempt some of their students to lose their way as well.

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The Violent Outcomes of Ideological Extremism: What Have We Learned Since Jonestown?

I do not deny that positive experiences occur in a cult context, but what is of interest for me is the interactional dynamic found in cults that brings moral human beings to occasionally engage in insidious or demeaning behaviors, or sometimes just the plain incomprehensible.

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Setting Limits and Boundaries