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Where Toxic Shame Comes from and How to Work Through It

By Crystal Raypole — 2020

Shame typically comes up when you look inward with a critical eye and evaluate yourself harshly, often for things you have little control over.

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4 Signs That You Are Your Own Worst Enemy

My worst enemy is as close as it gets: She's literally under my skin. Oh, there are other people in the world who have hurt my feelings, called me names and sabotaged my work, health and relationships. But when it comes to acting against my own interests, no one can hold a candle to yours truly.

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Martha Beck
2020
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Misophonia Complicates Relationships in Complex Ways

Understanding how and why can help people cope with the disorder.

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Jennifer J. Brout
2022
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Have You Listened to Your Self-Talk Lately?

At a retreat in the late 1990s, Buddhist teacher, Mary Orr, told us an eye-opening tale. She was in the middle of a harried day in which she had too much to do and too little time in which to do it.

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Toni Bernhard
2011
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The “Do It All Myself” Mentality that’s Born from Trauma and Feeling Unworthy.

The “do it all myself” mentality is praised by society as a strong work ethic and tenacious independence. But it’s actually a habit born from trauma and feeling unworthy.

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Jennifer Bauer
2020
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Trust Issues: Why Is It So Hard for Some People to Trust?

It’s become more and more difficult to remain vulnerable, trusting, and open to life in this era of uncertainty, global upheaval, divorce, and disrupted family life.

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Joyce Catlett
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Shame and Countertransference

Sheila Rubin discusses her ideas on Healing Shame. Shame can bind with fear to create social anxiety. Shame can also bind with happiness, or get in the way of happiness.

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Sheila Rubin
2016
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Is There a Bias Against Negative Self-Talk?

This post is not going to argue that negative self-talk is always a good thing. Far from it.

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Daniel R. Stalder
2019
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7 Ways to Change Negative Self-Talk

Let me be the first to tell you that there’s nothing wrong with you. You may have some patterns to unlearn, some self-love to embrace, and some new behaviors to embody, but seriously, there’s nothing wrong with you.

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Erin Power
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The 3 Simple Steps to Stopping Negative Self-Talk

Whatever your negative self-talk looks like, you know it’s not helping you move forward and make progress in your life. It’s also making you feel like crap.

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Brett McKay and Kate McKay
2020
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5 Tips to Stop Negative Self-Talk Once & for All

You can learn to consciously choose to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones that will make your life better.

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Jack Canfield
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