The need for human connection remains our most innate desire. We engage in romantic relationships when we become intimately involved with another person on an emotional (and frequently sexual) level. While the time together can be deeply fulfilling with mutual attraction, shared dedication, and unmistakable affection, there are countless expectations, assumptions, and misunderstandings that must be examined and clarified to maintain a healthy and deepening relationship.
In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise.
In this talk you’ll learn: What the greatest orgasmic pleasure possible is.- how to have the best sex life ever. Which of your core needs were probably NOT met as a child, and how you project this pain into your relationship.
Marriage and family life expert Dr. Gary Chapman answers questions from the Oprah's Life Class audience-in the studio and on Twitter. Watch as he reveals his personal love language. Plus, what's the best way to communicate with someone who has multiple love languages?